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Is your definition of success a fatal mistake?
For some,success is defined in terms of the dollar amount on a paycheck.For others,it's the title on their business card.Others may define success in terms of the accolades and awards they have won.
But the problem with how people define success these days is that when they're forced to change it, they can't.Look at the businessmen who have committed suicide because they have lost fortunes.Consider the workers who are fired and then go back to work,armed with a gun.
Extreme cases,sure.Not everyone considers killing themselves or others when their livelihood is threatened.But it does point out that maybe we need to revisit our own definition of success.
Start by completing this definition:"Success to me is...."
After you complete this sentence,then review it and determine if you're on the path to achieving that success.If you were to lose your job or money tomorrow, would your definition of success still be valid? Or, Would you consider yourself a failure?
I remember a job where I worked long,stressful hours and often labored for a boss who had mood swings like a freaking roller coaster.It made for a tense situation,to say the least.One day I was talking to a co-worker and the exhaustion was overwhelming.I felt so dissatisfied, frustrated and even angry.Then it hit me:If I died that day,I didn't want the only thing on my tombstone to be"Always met her deadlines."
Ugh,I remember thinking.I wanted my life to account for more than that.It wasn't until months later that I started making some real changes in my life,changes that I know made me much better able to balance my life and devote time and effort to more than my job.
Right now,times are tough and some of us are beginning to panic.But I think it's a golden opportunity to really think about what is important in your life, and weed out the things that don't really matter.
You are the one who must define what success is to you.One thing I know for sure: You are more than a job title, you are worth more than a number on a paycheck and you are more than an award to hang on your wall.Is the destination you have in mind worth the road you must travel? Only you can answer that.
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